Hey gang, just wanted to add my experience...
I just installed a Curt brand trailer hitch that I ordered from etrailer.com for my 2008 Outlander SE.
When I received the hitch it was bent (probably during shipping). The bolt holes on the driver side and passenger side weren't parallel, the passenger side was bent inward. I called etrailer to explain and emailed some pictures. They called me back the next day and suggested I try bending it back to it's original position. At first I was like, you want me to do what?! I felt like they didn't really want to deal with sending me a new one.
So I managed to bend it back and began the installation. First I lowered the exhaust by removing 2 of the rubber exhaust hangers (with the aid of some WD40). I then installed the bolt through the tow loop and then the 3 bolts to the frame on the passenger side. When I went put the 3 bolts on the frame of the driver side, that's when it didn't line up.
I had to undo the bolt through the tow loop and bend the hitch (with the passenger side still attached to the frame) in order to get the holes on the driver side to line up. After some coaxing I managed to get them lined up but now the hole for the tow loop wasn't lined up anymore. Very frustrating.
I thought maybe lowering the spare would give me more room to work. While lowering the spare it was stuck and rubbing up against the back of the hitch and I had to jiggle it for while to get it down. Lowering the spare didn't allow the tow loop to line up (**** it!) but it did give me more room to finish the install.
Now I understand why the instructions say to install the bolt through the tow loop first. However, since I'm using the hitch for a bike rack I decided to leave the bolt for the tow loop out. I torqued the 6 bolts to spec and put the spare back which was a really tight squeeze.
In the end, installation took about an hour (instructions estimated 30 minutes) and I wasn't too thrilled about the fit. The hitch sticks out a bit farther from the bumper than I expected. I was hoping that it would be a little more hidden and not detract from the clean lines of the Outlander.
Here's the hitch I ordered:
http://www.etrailer.com/pc-H~13581.htm?vehicleid=20089107I'll post some pictures tomorrow. Hope this helps!
Cheers,
Steve