I also get a similar noise to what you described. I videoed it and put it on youtube here:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rdy6wSPfqvcNoise seems to be coming from the side of the engine closest to the camera.
For the first 30 sec the car is idling in neutral, then i put it in reverse (makes same noise in Drive). You can here the noise loudest at 1000rpm, and it disappears above 1500-2000 rpm. Sounds similar to the tappets videos, but im no expert. Any advice would be appreciated.
Is there any info on the net regarding how to clean tappets?
I'm getting a transmission + shocks service on tuesday so ill ask about it there.