The relay on the side of the console, gold box. Where does it get its power from? Nothing clicks when i turn the key, but if I go to start it, the fuel pump side of it clicks, and the other side doesnt, and the car wont start. No cel light at all, even when i turn the key 2 clicks and all lights are supposed to come on. There is no power going into the one side of the relay(ecu side), where does the power for that side come from? I checked all fuses and they are all good. If I jumper 3 wires on the ecu side of the relay, the relay works and the car will start.can anyone tell me where the power comes from for this side of the relay?

I don't know for sure on this, but I woudl speculate that any signals are wired directly to the ECU since it's like 6 inches away. Power is probably coming through the main wiring harness that comes from the engine bay, in front of the passenger side door. it's probably fused under the hood.

grab the electrical service manual if you can read the schematics - it's posted in this forum somwhere